My mom called me about two weeks ago. The daughter of a 30-year marine who flew in three wars, she called with one - very - specific - question. Sadly, our conversation ended with another question; one that has torn me up in the days since.
Mom: Honey, dad told me what's going on in Afghanistan and all the Americans that are still there. We're wondering if Wayne will deploy again soon and want to send him our love.
Me: Oh, yea....I don't think he's gonna get deployed.
Mom: Really?! Why is that?
Me: They're not sending troops back in.
After prolonged moment of silence...
Mom: I don't understand.........Dad said there are thousands of Americans still there.
Me: There are. But I heard on the news that troops aren't being sent throughout Afghanistan to collect them.
In a genuinely confused voice.....
Mom: Why would you do that? Why would you leave your people behind!?
That's a good question mom. That's a good question. _______________________________________________________________________________ The devastation felt by so many right now has nothing to do with why we entered Afghanistan, why we stayed so long or why we left. The issue is HOW we left.
This is not the America I grew-up in. We've gone from "…don't negotiate with terrorists" & "leave no man behind" to begging terrorists to spare a few of our people, then packing-up and jumping ship before they are all brought home, because - well - the Taliban told us to.
This disaster has hit many people hard, for many reasons. The soldiers and spouses I’ve spoken with are so upset, so depressed, many can’t even articulate their grief. Personally, I wasn’t ready to talk with my nonmilitary friends about this until days after the onset. I was so infuriated; heartbroken. It’s unreal. 20 years of work seemed to collapse in a matter of days. So many lives and limbs lost. So many sacrifices; multiple deployments, months - even years away from family: Missed birthdays, missed first days of school, missed baby births, you name it, I know people who have lived it.
The sadness also extends to our partners in Afghanistan. 20 years of freedoms were stripped away from an entire nation. Our soldiers spent time with these people. They played cricket with their kids, spent hours with their interpreters, and trained alongside the Afghan military. For them to think back on those experiences, then look forward at the inevitable - the sickening - reality of what life will be like living under the Taliban. There simply are no words.
And the consequences of this catastrophe will, undoubtedly, last longer than 20 years. Our enemies no longer fear us. Our allies no longer trust us. A stronger, more equipped, Taliban opens the door for countries like China, Iran and Russia to run right through and join forces. Quite frankly, it’s terrifying.
If you're like me you've wept, and prayed - ranted - then prayed some more.
If you’re like me you’ve wondered, what can I possibly do? How can I make a difference?
And if you're like me you're tired - just tired - of all the talk. It's time to do.
So.....“Be brave. Do something.”
What You Can Do
1) Educate yourself. If you’re confused about what’s been happening, that’s ok – it’s definitely confusing. I’ve found these sources to be the most comprehensive and reliable: Matt Zeller Dan Bongino Ben Shaprio
2) Flood your senators’ and congressmen's phones and emails; demand their priorities be: #1 Get Americans safely out #2 Get Afghan allies safely out ------> https://www.house.gov/representa.../find-your-representative ------> https://www.senate.gov/senators/senators-contact.htm
3) Flood the White House with emails; demand that the president & vice-president bring Americans home. ------> https://www.whitehouse.gov/contact
4) Donate to private organizations that are trying to rescue persecuted groups in Afghanistan: ------> https://thenazarenefund.org/ ------> https://samaritanspurse.org/
5) Pray. Pray. Then pray some more.
